Dating

Whenever you point a finger at the person you want to be with

and think he or she or they is not well, remember there are 3 fingers pointing right back at you. Do the work. If you are attracted to and chase people who are not healthy at that moment in their lives, or in general, maybe it is about taking a step back and taking some down time, and working on yourself -so you feel most comfortable with a person who is healthy, we chase what we can not have to avoid the work.

I get it.

On the flip side, if you are in already in an intimate relationship, and your partner becomes sick, mentally (which is physically, that is the brain), that is not the time to turn away that is the time to turn towards, to love that person even more.